AL78, on 2021-November-06, 07:56, said:
This sort of bidding is common at club bridge. On a bad day they stuff you up.
The forums are a resource for getting better, not for an endorsement of very bad bridge. I may sometimes (often?) come across as harsh, but imo sugarcoating one’s criticism tends to dilute the point being made.
It’s tautological to say that bad players are bad because they play badly, but the road to improvement begins with recognizing bad bridge. Then, hopefully, one learns and reduces the frequency as well as the magnitude of the errors
As Stephen pointed out, bidding 1H, intending to ‘reverse’ into spades is bad. I’ve seen players with 2,000 master points do silly things like this…it’s a common mistake. Of course, doing this as a balancing overcall is even more awful since advancer is far more likely to pass such a balancing bid than an opening bid. Both the lower and upper limits of a balance are far lower than those for an opening, so advancer needs much more to move over a balance than over an opening.
As for bad bridge being common…of course it is. My personal, non-scientific estimate is that maybe 10% of regular club players have a reasonable grasp of the game. That’s no reason to dial back constructive criticism. I hope the OP recognizes that criticism is not personal. None of us were born with an understanding of the game. It takes years to become good. And then only if one learns from the nearly infinite number of mistakes one makes
I’m a pretty good player but I still make mistakes. They tend to be more subtle than the ones we see here. Indeed, some of them are so subtle I don’t even know they were mistakes!
Fortunately I play, usually, with very good partners….good in all aspects of being a good partner…and so we often discuss boards we’ve played, and we are all looking for mistakes we’ve made, with a view to understanding why the bid or play was an error, so as to improve.
I think I once played a 26 board session in which I made no mistakes at all. One out of thousands of sessions. And I’m pretty sure that if I could go back over that session, from some 20 years ago, I’d now see things I should have done differently.
Personally, I like finding out I’ve done something sub-optimally. Maybe next time I’ll do better, armed with (I hope) the ability to recognize the error.
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